Is it alright to date someone in your workplace? Romance in the workplace is inevitable, and so are the problems that arise about the matter. These problems can lead to resentments that can bring an end to your other beautiful working relationships at work. Hurt feelings can also create a deep and negative effect in your productivity and your life as a whole.
On the other hand, workplace romance has also its positive side. In fact, according to Business Know-How romances can also improve work performance. The inspiration adds energy and dynamism at work that's translated to communication, enhanced morale, productivity and even creativity.
So if you already found the love of your life at work, don't worry. The key is to learn to properly manage it. Here are some tips that can help you with that:
1. You need to have a plan.
Start by spending time with your future partner and talk about how you can handle the relationship and possible breakup. This might sound awkward but it's a great step to minimize the possible negative effects to your organization and also your company when things don't turn out well.
2. Still set your focus toward your career goals.
No matter what's happening in your personal life now, it should always lead to your goals. Don't let problems affect your quality of work, and don't make it a reason for your other workplace relationships to shatter. Active management is not romantic but it's essential if you want not just your love life on track but also a successful career, as stated by INC.
3. Be professional at work.
"Now that it's out in the open, refrain from being 'open,'" as noted by Monster. You might feel the urge of expressing your love to your special one, but don't forget that aside from lovers, you two are also co-workers especially inside your workplace. So act accordingly — no snuggling, handholding, kissing, back rubs or even shoulder massage at work.
Not all workplace romances work, but if your partner is worth the risks then fighting for that feeling is a great thing. Make that love a key to succeed and not to destroy and damage your career.
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