Apart from your resume and interview, having the right people in your professional references page is important to get the job that you want. Here is a list of people you should never use as job references.
Different researchers made a study on why single ladies have the tendency to downplay their career goals and aspirations around men. Does it have something to do with the fear of being intimidating and unapproachable to men?
Do you daydream about working with different people, about having a different job, or of being somewhere else as long as it's not in the office ? Maybe it's a sign that you should leave your present job and look for another.